Eligible black women are more active in pursuing a potential partner than black men. I have a friend in Chicago who used to organize soiree’s for black singles, all of the events would have way more women than men. Also, the women usually had better jobs and higher education.

I’ve been thinking about the reasons why for a while and all I can come up with is that its probably easier for an educated black man to find a mate and settle down because we usually don’t expect to find our equal in terms of economics and women who come into a relationship not being equal financially usually have an easier time accepting their man as the leader.

Educated black women tend to try to emasculate their men for having deficiencies in terms of lacking a job with social status or income. Just read enough messageboards and listen to the comments.

Jeff

PS. Those were just my observations, I am sure there are people with different opinions, so please don’t crucify me

But my part 3 should be interesting. I met someone in an unlikely place (and he hates texting!)

And i know exactly how you feel about the texting. I recently had a guy who was possibly interested in me, but all he did was text. After several rounds to texting, I messaged him saying I “don’t do texts.” His response: “Even my mama does test messaging, you better learn.” Um, player please probably not. Then he continued to text me! Needless to say, I didn’t respond again. If you want to talk to me, CALL ME. Besides, I don’t get free text messaging no way.